There are many psychics out there and knowing which one to choose or trust is the hardest part of getting a good reading. The first thing to do is chat with the reader you choose for a few minutes; if you have a bad feeling or you are not comfortable with that reader, then something is wrong. You should always feel at ease with the reader you choose. My main thing when working with a client is to make sure they are at ease, and I always try and make it like I am talking to an old friend. There are a few things that you can do to make sure you get the best reading possible and have a connection in your reading.
1- Be at Ease: When going to see a Psychic make sure you go in with a clear mind and that your energy and physical self are as calm as possible. The more nervous you are the harder it will be for your reader to make that connection to you. What it does and can do is throw a wall around you, a wall of protection that is very hard for the reader to get around. Know that any messages you will receive will be for your highest and your best, and that the psychic is there to help you on your path.
2- No expectations: Especially when going to see a medium, do not go in with the mind set you want to hear from one person and one person only. The spirits that will come forward are the ones you need to receive the messages from, and they come with all the love they have for you. By not wanting to speak to Aunt Sally, and wanting only messages from dad, you may miss some very important things she has to say, so be open and willing to any spirit and loved ones that have messages for you.
3- Testing the Psychic Reader; This is not only a very unpleasant situation for the psychic but for you as well. Wanting the psychic to prove to you they are authentic just throws the reader right off track. You unknowingly put up a barrier and expect that reader to get through it. Not only is it a waste of time and money but you will NOT get a good reading out of it in the end.
4- A clear Mind and Body- Do not go to see a psychic when your under the influence of alcohol or any substance, the reader works off your energy, when you go for a reading like this your energy is clouded and the reader can not read you. Most readers will ask you to come back at a later time when you are more clear and not under the influence. If your taking any sort of medication from your doctor you may want to inform your reader of this and they will try and work around it, most times they can and it will have no effect on your reading.
The basic message here is to go into a psychic reading to learn, to grow and experience what a gift can be given to you with the right psychic. By going in and playing games or trying to fool your expert is really a waste of time and energy on both parts. Also remember your psychic is human as well and can have good and bad days, we are not always going to pick up the validation you are looking for, which does not mean the psychic is not any good, it just means they may be having an off day or something happening around you at that time is blocking the energy exchange from happening. Mostly be calm as possible and have fun. Messages flow easier when a client is having a good time and is really at ease with their psychic. Happy Readings!!!